Love is something reachable but not willable
爱情是可遇不可求
You will have it if it belongs to you, whereas you don't keep for it if it doesn't appear in your life./命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求.
Life is a process of finding love, and everybody needs to find four people.人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
The first is yourself. 第一个是自己,
The second is the person you love most 第二个是你最爱的人，
The third is one who loves you most 第三个是最爱你的人，
The Fourth is to spend your whole life with第四个是共度一生人。
First meet the person you love most, and experience the feeling of love;首先会遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
Understand the feeling of being loved, so we can find people who love you most因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
When you have experienced love and be loved, learned to love, will know what it is you need,
Also will find the most suitable for you, who can get along with you a lifetime. 当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
But sadly, in real life, these three persons are often not the same person;但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
You fall in love, he/she do not choose you你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
Loves you the most, more often than not you love the most;最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
Most long-term, but not your Favorites either he loves you；而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
The man just appears in the most suitable time只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
You, will be few people in the lives of others? 你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
No one intends to change, he loves you is really in love with you; 没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
But when he didn't love you is really didn't love you; 可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
He loves you no way pretends not to love you;他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
Similarly, he does not love you and no way to pretend to love you;同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
When a man does not love you must leave you当一个人不爱你要离开你，
You have to ask yourself whether you still love him,你要问自己还爱不爱他，
If you don't love him anymore, never to poor self-esteem and refusing to leave;如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
If you still love? Wish he was with someone who truly loves, will not stop him；如果你还爱? 希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
If you stop him getting real happiness, it means you you don't love him anymore,你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
And if you do not love him, you are not entitled to blame him for changing it? 而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
Love is not possession,爱不是占有，
You like the Moon, it is impossible to put down on the basin of the Moon,你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
But the moon still shines into your room.但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
In other words, you love a person, you can also have another way,换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
Let love be the life of eternal memories.让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
If you realy love a person, you should love him like the original - love his good, love his bad:如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子—爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
Love his advantage, but also love his shortcomings,爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
You shoulden't because you love him, you want him to become what you want it to be,绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
If he turn not into you like, you doesn't love him.万一变不成就不爱他了。
Really love a person is unable to say the reason。真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
You just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you; 你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你.
Real feelings two people together in the most difficult, that is, no requirements.真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
After all, the feelings will have to pay, not only want to get.毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
Separation will be a inevitable test of,分开是一种必然的考验，
If your love is not solid, had to admit defeat,如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
True love is not going to change? When two people in love.真爱是不会变? 两人在谈情说爱的时候，
The most like to call each other swear, promised to why we swear to each other,最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓，
It is because we do not trust each other, we do not believe lover,就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，
And these promises are unrealistic:而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
But, Love you until the sea is dry,the stone is rotten, the earth is old, the sky is barren...The End of Life, can not change my love for you!海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱!
Know that the sea will not dry, not rotten stone, and not old earth the sky won't be barren,明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；
Even if it will, not live at that time.就算会，也活不到那时候。
Make a promise when they should be careful, don't make promise can be realized,许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，
It is best to promise to do that you can't do,最好是承诺做不到的事，
反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧，
Remember: "impossible to realize the promise of the most touching."请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
In love, to say is one thing, to do is another.在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；
No one believes, to listen not believe either.讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
How about you? Found the first few? 你呢？找到了第几个？
In the boundless huge crowd, who you met? Who met you?茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？
