What kind of man that most closely matches you

How Chinese woman thinking of marriage? 

 I tick this topic is for a American who wants to know more about Chinese people's concept of love and marriage.

 This set to build a platform for exchange between East and West about common and different points of marriage concept, and you are welcome to participate in the discussion.

Maybe this can help those who are looking for love and the establishment of Chinese love of Americans. 

Article taken from Su Qin 

--Su Qin, famous writers, many domestic appliances (TV) stations, print media consultant emotion

Translator: Qiuling Liu

Marriage is the greatest thing for women life. Got to do it big, first of all from the "selected people" began.

Women's mate choice, to implement three parts: character, personality, and substance. one of the three missing, marriage life, there will be no comfort.

The three complement each other. Lack of one, will result in the lack of certain aspects of the marriage.

The most suitable husband man, his personality must be the most suitable for you. Life is a substance of "slow industry", it requires the accumulation of time. The personality this one is the need for both spouses with degrees.

Marriage, seemingly tangled complex, in fact, is very simple: if each individual fit, the amount to negotiations, everything will be solved. If the personality clash, you say your right and I said I'm right, everything refused to budge.

This means that good men everywhere, but not easy to find for you. Indeed found: a woman, whenever personality clashes, love and marriage, eventually tragedy of basically. The first reason is now divorced, but also because of incompatible personalities.

In other words, not going in the same, best not go into a door. Personality matched pair of men and women, always falling born emotion. A pair of male and female personality is not suitable for， number of years of tough love.

Understand this, naturally know what kind of man is not suitable for a husband.

Maybe everyone is different personality, partner requirements are not the same. But an individual is not fit, The man will let you "want to talk to zero,"  he will never be security for you a happy marriage.

Husband and wife is a lifelong partner. You marry a man who is willing to chat with you, is the most simple and most affordable marriage principles. As time wore on, you will find some chat, means of communication smooth. And communication is the best feeling "detoxification agent"!

Note: The above translation skills are limited, for reference.